Realize success won’t solve your problems

Most immature guys think that money, power and success with women will solve all their problems and make them happy. How great would that be, eh? Unfortunately, it’s simply not true. Often, the things we think would make us happy create new problems of their own once they’re achieved. A mature man understands that he is responsible for his own results. He doesn’t get jealous when others succeed or angry when a successful person complains, and he doesn’t live in a fantasy world thinking that if he had success in a particular area of his life (for example, women and dating) that all of his other problems would be magically solved. Understanding this is an important step in growing up and becoming the type of mature, grounded guy women find irresistibly attractive.

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don't play with food!!!

I thought before that pears are good guys but this picture changed my mind.

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Does money make you mean?

Money may not be the root of all evil, but studies reveal that those with money on their minds tend to be indifferent to helping or even interacting with others.

We all know that money can't buy love or happiness. But could just thinking about money actually make you mean?

A new behavioral study finds that folks with money on their minds are less helpful, less considerate and less willing to ask for assistance or engage with others than those who have not been "preconditioned" to money. On the bright side, the money-minded tend to be more independent and focused, and they tend to work longer on a task before asking for help.

The nine experiments in the study, published as "The Psychological Consequences of Money" in a recent issue of Science Magazine, used random samples of students and nonstudents at the University of Minnesota, Florida State University and the University of British Columbia.

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ARE YOU ABLE TO GUESS THE CONDITION OF HER ?

She will show you -- hopefully in no uncertain terms -- how you’re performing. Her body will display some overall signs of arousal that she can’t fake, but remember every woman is different. So, yes, it can often be just as difficult to get non-verbal feedback on your performance when there are so many variables. So, we've put together some general sexual body language signs that she's getting exactly what she wants from you.

Rapid breathing

Our breath when resting is a very peaceful and tranquil movement of air in and out of our lungs. It has the delightful title of "inspiration" for breathing in, and "expiration" for breathing out. When a woman is turned on, however, this breath comes in urgent puffs and probably has some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breath change, you’re on the right track. If you can feel her heart thumping, you’re well on your way. This is her sexual body language giving you signals that she's aroused. However, if she's breathing normally after having her "big orgasm," perhaps she’s a big faker.

General writhing around and body movement

If your girl is curling her toes and writhing against you, chances are she's probably enjoying herself. Grinding and pushing against you means that she's really getting into it. If she's lying there limp, then things probably aren’t happening for her. Try changing positions, or stop entering her and warm her up from the beginning with your mouth or hands and see how her sexual body language progresses from there.

Thrusting hips

When she meets your thrusts, you’re doing something right. It's pretty safe to say that if she's matching your body movements and is in time with you, then she's getting something out of it. Good sex is often very synchronized, as that is how our bodies are designed to produce orgasm; repeated movements in the right spot build to a climaxing. The trouble is finding the right spot, of which there are many. If she isn’t meeting your thrusts then her sexual body language is telling you that she wants something else, so change positions and see how she responds.

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More Questions Than Answers

1. Does Hillary Clinton's "momentum" really count for anything? Her big Tuesday night whittled Barack Obama's delegate lead by only 14, according to Real Clear Politics.

2. During the next week, Obama likely will add to his lead with solid wins in Wyoming and Mississippi. Will Clinton then still have a momentum story?

3. Clinton's next firewall, Pennsylvania (with demographics similar to Ohio's), is seven weeks away. Should Clinton put all her marbles there, on the assumption that a Pennsylvania win shows superdelegates that she can win big swing states?

4. Should Obama go negative? If so, how?

5. How should John McCain campaign while the Democrats are hashing things out?

6. Who should McCain pick for his vice presidential candidate?

7. Before picking his V.P. candidate, should McCain wait to see who the Democrats nominate?

8. Is a protracted Democratic fight good for McCain?

9. Will the Democrats snatch defeat from the jaws of victory in 2008? The theory is, if Obama hangs on and wins, he will be damaged by Clinton's negative campaign, and his weakness will be exposed. But if Clinton manages to pull this out, she will have done so in a style that alienates young Obama voters who might not show up to vote in November.

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Eat Like The Japanese

While the French paradox -- a nation of cigarette smokers, cheese eaters and wine drinkers who are actually healthier than most other developed populations -- seems to make little sense on the surface, very few people are surprised to hear that the Japanese are among the healthiest in the world.

Japanese people enjoy one of the longest average life spans in the world -- 86 years for women and 79 for men versus 80 and 75 respective years for Americans -- with far lower rates of obesity and chronic diseases like osteoporosis, heart disease and some types of cancer.

Part of that success is a product of lifestyle -- Japanese people tend to exercise more than we do -- and part of it is due to diet. Not only do the Japanese eat healthier than North Americans -- their diet is made up of low-fat, high-carb and protein-rich foods that are loaded with all sorts of nutrients and antioxidants that our diets don’t come close to matching -- but they also eat less. The ancient Japanese proverb hara hachi bunme says it best: “Stop eating when you are 80% full.” So, while our society glorifies terms like “super-sized” and “all you can eat,” in Japan, foods are eaten slowly and in smaller quantities. Meals are appreciated as much for their excellent taste as they are for their beautiful presentation. Not surprisingly, the Japanese eat about three-quarters of the calories per day that Americans do.

Lifestyle changes aside, there are a few basic tips you can follow to help you eat healthier like the Japanese. It isn't particularly difficult and it will help change your diet for the better.

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Taare Switzerland ke Zameen Par

Taare Switzerland ke Zameen Par.

That's where Darsheel Safary, the star of Aamir Khan's Taare Zameen Par , will be going.

Just one film old, and already the nine-year old has been signed as the brand ambassador of Mumbai's travel company Kesari.

The latest advertisement offers a week-long stay with Darsheel in Switizerland.

But why Darsheel?

"He is the brand ambassador for a student special tour called Masti Ki Patshala. He is a student himself, therefore other students will love him. So we thought it is better to sign on Darsheel as a brand ambassador for this special tour," spokesperson for Kesri Travels said.

Way to go Darsheel!

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Key States of Texas, Ohio Hold US Presidential Primaries

Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton campaigns in Beaumont, Texas, 03 Mar 2008

U.S. Senators Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama are in a tight race in two key states holding presidential primaries Tuesday, while Senator John McCain is on the verge of clinching his party's nomination.

Public opinion polls indicate Democrats Clinton and Obama are very close in the delegate-rich states of Texas and Ohio. Former U.S. President Bill Clinton has said his wife needs to win both states to keep her campaign alive.

Clinton lags behind Obama, with 11 straight losses in primaries and caucuses.

Along with Texas and Ohio, the smaller states of Rhode Island and Vermont hold primaries Tuesday.

Senator McCain could secure the Republican Party nomination with victories Tuesday. He has a commanding lead over former Arkansas Governor Mike Huckabee.

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Van Halen delays reunion gigs(postponed the tour)

Van Halen (left) healed a rift with Dave Lee Roth (right) to reunite

Rock band Van Halen have rescheduled four dates on their US reunion tour while their guitarist has tests for an undisclosed medical condition.

Eddie Van Halen is undergoing "a battery of comprehensive tests", according to a statement.

The 53-year-old has previously suffered from oral cancer, had hip replacement surgery and battled with alcoholism.

The band reunited last year, performing with original singer Dave Lee Roth for the first time in 25 years.

The 25-date tour was postponed from last March until September while Van Halen was treated in a rehabilitation centre.

Van Halen enjoyed huge success in the 1980s

Now, four gigs that were due to take place this this week have been postponed and are expected to be staged next month.

They are in Dallas, Texas; Cincinnati, Ohio; Baltimore, Maryland; and Raleigh, North Carolina.

Eddie Van Halen was one of the band's founders in the 1970s, along with his brother Alex.

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INDIA BEATEN AUSTRALIA

India won final against Australia in brisbain. India won by 9 run.

India claimed the Commonwealth Bank Series in immaculate style with the young guns bearing a hard hitting whip that proved yet again that the new age cricketing force from the sub-continent was there to challenge the best at their game�and beat them at it.

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Pleasing Yourself and Your Partner

First base, second base, third base, score! We're raised to think sex is all about intercourse, but it's not, especially for women. To experience more pleasure while connecting with your partner, follow these tips:

• Be sensual. Notice and fully experience the different sights, smells and tastes in your life.
• Be in the moment. Quiet the internal dialogue in your head. Stop focusing so much on intercourse and try to focus on the joy of touch in and of itself.
• Be able to lead and follow. Good sexual partners can do both.
• Be nice. Tell your partner why you love her. Give her a steamy kiss in the morning. Do the dishes tonight. For women especially, sex doesn't start in the bedroom. Most women need to feel relaxed, loved and safe before having sex.
• Learn about your body. What do you like? What feels good? If you don't know, how is your partner supposed to know?
• Communicate. Talk about what you like and don't like. Share your observations and feelings, but don't judge. Say, "I feel frustrated," not "you're bad at this."
• Be a tease. Anticipation is a big part of sex. A good lover leaves you wanting more.
• Be unpredictable. You might think if something works, you should do it harder and longer. That's not always the case. Mix it up a little.
• Create a sacred space. What could you do to make your bedroom more inviting and sensual? Get rid of the laundry piles. Light some candles. Play some music.
• Take responsibility for your sexual needs. Don't expect your partner to want intercourse every time you do. For most couples, he wants sex more often than she does. Expand your definition of "sex," and come to terms with your different appetites.
• Decide for yourself what you value in a sexual relationship. What does having a good sex life mean to you? Don't look to movies and the media for the answer. Look inside.
• Try this exercise: Spend 10 to 15 minutes with your partner tonight, touching only in supposedly non-sexual places -- the legs, the arms, the back. You'll see how sexy those places really are.

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Shy Guys are tough to crack sometimes...

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.

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Understanding Body Language of Beautiful Women

People are always thinking, but different people make different body movements based on the type and intensity of their thinking. When trying to attract women, you must be aware of different actions that indicate what she's thinking about. A quick general look at what body language cues will help you understand her better. These are some indicators of thought:

• They're stroking their chin. This means they are assessing the advantages and disadvantages of the proposal/idea being presented.

• They take their glasses off, after which they may either (1) clean them, or (2) put the tip of the frame in their mouth. They are buying themselves some time to think things over. A frame in the mouth would also likely indicate that they need more details and they are willing to listen.

• They are pinching the bridge of the nose most likely with eyes closed. People doing this are engaged in very deep thought. They may be involved in a difficult situation, where they are aware of the consequences that may occur as a result of making crucial decisions.

• They put a palm below the chin, index finger pointed and extended along the cheek, while other fingers placed beneath the mouth. This gesture more likely indicates thoughts that are criticizing or antagonizing other people.

• They walk with the head down and hands behind the back. People who walk this way are probably worried about their problems, and they are thinking of ways to solve them.

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How to Make Sure a Woman Rejects You

I was going to write an article called: How to Make a Woman Fall in Love With You, but it's been done a million times and men don't listen anyway. Since most men do the opposite of what women tell them to do, I thought I'd put a list of turn offs together in hopes you guy's can finally figure out what turns us back on.

Women just LOVE it when men put sex first in a relationship. Actually guys...

For every "normal" webpage, there are five porn pages. Women, in general, do not surf the net for porn, but SOMEBODY obviously is. Pornography, and the men that watch it, are a turn off to most desirable women.

Some out of touch research scientist reported that male and female rats have sex twenty times a day... women are not rats.

Sex is biochemically no different from eating large quantities of chocolate... there are other ways to stimulate women guys.

85% of men who die of a heart attack during intercourse are found to have been cheating on their wives. Somebody up there hates cheaters as much as women do!

The average person spends two weeks of their life kissing. The average person lives 3,952 weeks...why aren't we spending more of that time kissing?

The first five topics of this article are all sex related because I'm addressing a male audience who, on the average, thinks about sex every seven seconds! Now, can I have your undivided attention so I can inform you as to what else you might like to do to get rid of a woman?

Use profanity
Don't clean up after yourself
Kick dogs, children and old people
Drink everyday
Fart
Talk about past sexual conquest

It's been seven seconds so I had to throw in another sexual reference to keep your attention.

Things to consider:

"I am" is the shortest complete sentence in the English language. Can we maybe talk about me for a minute?

Women know what GOLF stands for "Gentlemen Only, Ladies Forbidden", so can you not insult our intelligence with your silly little chauvinistic acronyms? Can you at least "pretend" to want to spend time with us outside the bedroom?

Another out of touch researcher reported that 25% of women think money makes a man sexier. I'm not sure which species he was studying because MY research indicates it's closer to 99.9% for us HUMAN females and I have the divorce statistics to prove it! Get a job, guys.

Okay, so you've been married awhile and haven't based the entire relationship around sex. Congratulations, you are evolving as we speak. Here is the next piece of advice to help you take that next step in your evolution: Always remember that when it comes to buying your lady an Anniversary present or Valentine's Day present, said present should not have a plug or a pulse...leave the toaster ovens and puppies to birthdays and Christmas!

So there you have it guys. A little food for thought. Probably not helpful at all but talking to a guy is like talking to a wall most of the time and you probably, for the most part, weren't paying attention anyway. For those of you that were, check out my website for more great relationship advice.

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